| Are you the one who is responsible for
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| | recognizing your uniqueness and
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| making choices which affect your life?
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| | individualism.
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| Have you being honoring your preferences
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| | "When we learn to say a deep, passionate
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| and trusting yourself to make the
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| | yes to the things that really matter,
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| correct, right and good choices?
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| | then peace begins to settle onto our
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| Let's be true to ourselves. We are really
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| | lives like golden sunlight sifting to a
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| not those "easy-going" people.
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| | forest floor."
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| We have our own preferences in every
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| | ~~ Thomas Kinkade ~~
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| situation. If you don't start making
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| | Also, remember it is really alright to
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| choices for everything that happens in
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| | have preferences or opinions different
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| your life, others will be more than happy
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| | from others. Why? Because you're unique
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| to make that choice for you.
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| | and you're always free to voice out what
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| So how do you know if you're really the
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| | you prefer.
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| "decision-maker" of everything in your
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| | You always have the ability to make
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| life?
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| | choices. It is just that since young,
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| Well, personally I believe the easiest
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| | we've been conditioned to believe that
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| way is through the conversation you have
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| | the choices made for us are always better
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| with yourself and others.
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| | than the choices we make for ourselves.
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| When you are out with your friends or
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| | Even though we do not like them, we are
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| family members who make the decisions?
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| | taught that they are "for our own good".
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| Your friends? Your loved ones or you?
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| | In addition to that, we're made to
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| When you have a different opinion or
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| | believe that "easy-going" person is
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| preference, do you voice them out or keep
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| | someone who readily accepts any choices
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| them inside you?
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| | others made for him or her. Does that
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| Now I am not suggesting that in every
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| | sound familiar? Are you someone like
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| outing with your loved ones, you should
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| | that?
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| always make the decisions. What I'm
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| | Being "easy-going" is surely not about
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| saying is that you should start
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| | accepting someone's choices mindlessly.
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| recognizing that you too have the right
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| | Instead it is accepting one's choices
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| to voice out your preferences.
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| | mindfully.
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| "I don't know","I'm fine with
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| | Therefore start to acknowledge and
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| anything","You make the decision", "I
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| | recognize your own preference and make
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| have no preference". Does these phrases
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| | your personal life choices now.
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| sound familiar? Do you often say whenever
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| | Remember, when you choose not to voice
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| you're asked to state your preferences?
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| | out your choice, you are already making a
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| Starting to recognize your own
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| | choice. A wrong choice.
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| preferences is one very important step to
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