Love, Life and Laughter

Copyright (c) 2008 Jenny Regelingadventure and if we look at every moment of it with
Essential Ingredients to Good Health!excitement, even in the tough times, we will succeed.
Love, Life & Laughter - Sounds wonderful doesn't it?So accept yourself unconditionally, love yourself
Have you ever really thought about the true meaningunconditionally, & enjoy your life unconditionally. This
of each of these valuable words; in your words only;brings me to the next point.
solely relating to you.'LIFE' - Fun, Disaster, enjoyment, disappointment,
Let us exam "Love" first. I believe, and you wouldlaughter etc. etc. As different a life each one of us has
probably have to agree, you can't have Life andfrom the other, we all experience many different
Laughter successfully without the most importantangles to many different situations. How we deal with
"Love".those completely satisfying or disastrous situations is
To Love is to be Loved first. You know the sayingthe crucial point to the destiny of our "LIFE"!
"Love, love your brother, as much as you loveA positive outlook on a negative situation can only
yourself". Well it is true. If you don't LIKE who you are,make the unwanted, hard to deal with situation, much
which really is a stronger verb than LOVE then youeasier to resolve, not to mention, live through. A
really have less chance of liking or loving someonepositive outlook on a positive situation can only
else very much at all. So how do we do this 'LOVEenhance the outcome by 150% at least. Both situations
YOURSELF' or 'LIKE YOURSELF' thing successfully.end up with a much better 'MOVE FORWARD WITH
First and foremost you must make sure theA SMILE OF CONTENTMENT' outlook on Life.
relationship you have with yourself is unconditional.Which leads me to the next paragraph "LAUGHTER".
Don't BEAT yourself up over small insignificant things.This, I believe, is the Cream on Top of the whole
None of us are perfect - all of us have faults, justrecipe to Good Health; the essential ingredient that sits
some more than others. We must learn to acceptup high oozing down through all the above, flavouring,
every aspect of "ME" (YOU) - every simple tiny detail.sweetening and softening all to a totally, healthy blissful
We don't necessarily have to like everything, as thatlife!
allows room for a CHANGE - IMPROVEMENT even.Laughter is the medicine that makes a healing power
That's a good thing; a Healthy Thing.totally possible. The old saying 'It takes more effort to
"Love doesn't erase the past, but it makes the futureSmile than to Frown' only enhances the fact that a
different." as quoted by Gary Chapman in THE FIVEwiser person is a happier person. If you have the
LOVE LANGUAGES. Therefore be open to the factenergy and willpower to smile and laugh through the
that you will perform acts you utterly dislike aboutmost difficult and life stretching moments, you have the
yourself and regret will be a major possibility, but if youvery recipe for great wisdom, strength, positive
recognise these acts and forgive yourself of them,ingenuity, and a total understanding of the meaning of
then you will be able to move forward, thus makingLOVE, LIFE & LAUGHTER!
your future different. We must Learn from ourTake all of the above and gulp it, swallow it and
Mistakes and make every mistake benefit our future.completely digest it into a healty love and life stream,
Don't waste mistakes with regret - prosper withwhich will only result in complete satisfaction of your
excitement of a lesson learnt improving everything inheart. Try the Special Recipe of Life - it really does
your path for tomorrow. Life really is an amazingwork!